Taking the sexual initiative with a man is like trying to tame a skittish Springbok. The trick is not to startle him too soon. Your best approach is to tempt him with your wares. Display the bait then lie low for a while. Let him graze on the lush plains of his own fertile imagination. Men are hunters by nature and uncomfortable in the role of prey. A man confronted by a predatory woman will run faster than a looter fleeing from a police van so let him think he is making all the moves.

Truth is a man would choose a timid tigress over a howling hyena any day. Your shyness is a turn on for men because it makes them feel powerful and in charge. A shy man may need a nudge in the right direction but subtlety is key when it comes to prizing him out of his shell.

Here are some more suggestions:

Invite him in

Offer him something to drink or ask if he’d like to see your new computer game.

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